Most times being nice is a recipe for happiness. But "nice" is also underrated and unappreciated. Especially at a time when everyone is supposed to be themselves and tell the "truth". One person's "truth" is another's torture, it can also be unnecessarily hurtful. Nice people trust that others will be nice in return. Nice people also tend to be taken advantage of. There is a point where people are "too nice" and neglect themselves because they are always in demand and can't say no (It isn't nice to say no). Nice people are helpful and can be counted on. Everyone enjoys a nice person. Nice people want to be around other nice people. Jerks want to be around nice people, not other jerks. Sometimes being nice gets old especially when loud, grumpy, demanding squeaky wheels seem to be considered and appreciated more than the nice little mice. They are called "strong" or "powerful", though often as part of sermon about all the magic that makes them so magnificent given by themselves. These "strong" and "powerful" people aren't a joy to be around, let alone work with, especially if you are nice (which is seen as a weakness). They are black-hole buttholes (referred to as "BBs" from this point forward) that suck all the energy and joy out of everything around them. But given enough time and rope BBs will hang themselves, most often when they are telling their "truth". The implosion may take some time, BBs are charming, manipulative and usually limit their natural BB behavior to the nice mice. Once the dust clears after a BB detonation is usually the time when nice people are most appreciated and reconfirms why being nice is the way to go.
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